Dear Reader,

Most of you probably know that the way that you think, feel and relate to others and to your children is influenced by patterns imposed upon you as you were growing up.

Those patterns either bless you or block you in life. (And they extend to blessing or blocking others — and your children, too.)

That’s why I want to introduce Inner Family Archetypes to you in a way that will make perfect sense, because the key to understanding your Inner Family Archetypes is the same key to understanding Right Brain Education.

Put another way, when you understand Inner Family Archetypes, you will better understand — and be able to put into practice — Right Brain Education. (And vice versa!)

How can I make such a statement?

Hello. My name is Caroline Hanstke.

I’m an author, wholeness psychologist and the developer — along with my associate Brian Emmanuel Grey — of the extraordinary model for successful relationships and effective human behavior called Inner Family Archetypes.

Carl Jung first introduced archetypes as a significant roadmap of human behavior. Archetypes convey an energy or thoughtform that portrays an aspect of our psyche.

Inspired by the teachings of Jung, Brian and I identified four primary archetypes that are part of everyone, and that are understandable in terms of the most fundamental, cohesive unit of society: the family.

And what keeps families together, happy and harmonious?

Love. The same thing that is the key to both Right Brain Education and Inner Family Archetypes.

How is love the key?

The four archetypes (or energies) of your Inner Family are symbolized through the concepts of Father, Mother, Boychild and Girlchild. These archetypes are universal, because they are the same for everyone — every age, culture and gender.

Each archetype has a Loving quality and a Unloving (or Unloved) quality.

The more familiar you become with your Inner Family Archetypes, the more you will recognize which archetype (either Loving or Unloving) you are expressing through particular situations, as well as throughout your life in general. And you will be better able to draw upon the strengths of a particular Loving archetype when needed in order to better manage and successfully deal with a situation.

This knowledge is both liberating and empowering. It will help you relate to your loved ones in a more authentic way, and thereby strengthen your relationships. It will also help you better understand and relate with everyone whom you meet.

So who is your Loving Inner Family?

	Loving Father Your Loving Father protects, directs, disciplines and gives conditional love. He helps you become impersonal to the things that you might otherwise react to in a personal, self-defeating way. He makes sure you are true to your word, and that you finish what you start. He represents the law of cause and effect, order and organization. By contrast, Unloving Father can be overly critical of yourself and everyone else, and can be dominating, arrogant and/or tyrannical.
	Loving Mother Your Loving Mother nurtures, guides, teaches, explains and gives unconditional love. She backs-up Loving Father’s directives with clear explanation, and balances his conditional love with her unconditional love. By contrast, Unloving Mother can be abandoning and/or aloof, or can inappropriately spoil the child by substituting the giving of things instead of the giving of herself (also known as the smother-mother syndrome).
	Loved Girlchild Your Loved Girlchild is innocent, pure, gentle, caring, forgiving and creative. She loves beauty, and does things with flair and finesse. She is the mystical side of your nature. She is not constrained by time and space. She is in touch with the transcendental. By contrast, Unloved Girlchild can be the wounded victim or martyr, can be whining, melodramatic and/or resentful.
	Loved Boychild Your Loved Boychild is daring, charming, brave, competent and competitive in a healthy, win-win manner. He is the adventurer in you. He favors being the champion of the oppressed. By contrast, Unloved Boychild can be over-aggressive and/or over-competitive, and would lie, cheat, backbite, bully or steal to get what he wants. He always has to have the last word in come-up-manship.

What is the value
of knowing your Inner Family?

You experience yourself every moment of your life through your Inner Family. These archetypes are the filters of all that you receive from your outer world, and all that you express from your inner world. Because they influence how you believe, think, feel and act, they have a significant impact throughout your life and in the kind of impact that you have on all whom you meet.

Your Loving Inner Family Archetypes are the ones that support your growth both as an individual and in relationships.

Your Unloving Inner Family Archetypes are the ones that do not support your growth, but instead thwart your success in relationships and in life.

When you know which ones are operating at any given time, you can direct and harmonize your energies with the Loving archetypes to better support your own growth, as well as the growth of those around you — most especially your children!

How can you use this knowledge?

When you know the characteristics of each member of your Inner Family and can identify them expressing through you and in others, you can choose the best one for any given circumstance or any moment of relationship.

By substituting Loving archetypes for Unloving ones, you can be your fullest potential self, and experience and contribute to your life and world from this, your most powerful, loving, caring, courageous, creative, intuitive, self — your most expanded “Real Self. ”

Understanding your Inner Family Archetypes gives you the power to choose to come into your wholeness as a person, and to live from that wholeness.

You can break free from patterns you may not even be aware of, and “rewrite” your life script, truly making the most of what you already have, and who you already are.

So how do you get this knowledge?

There is a way to see the patterns in your life in terms of “ratios” of the way that some basic archetypes are manifesting and are predominant in your life — both outwardly in your relationships with others, and inwardly as the image you have of yourself.

Now don’t think I am going to say that you must get rid of something in yourself. Maybe you can’t. Your patterns are a part of you. They are what makes you you. However, once you understand your patterns and make the best use of them, you can balance them to enrich your life, and you will have they keys to unlock your potential to be the best parent, friend, spouse and co-worker that you can be.

That’s precisely what I will be showing you in this course called...

Inner Family Archetypes —
Making the Loving Connection

Although I have been teaching individuals, groups and businesses about Inner Family Archetypes for many years, I am honored to be able to offer this course for the first time with Right Brain Kids, thanks to the sponsorship of my dear friends Pamela and Wennie.

I have fine-tuned my teaching approach so that you’ll learn about Inner Family Archetypes in a way that is very compatible with what you may already know about Right Brain Education.

You’ll get an expanded understanding of how you can use them both together to model loving behavior and compassion to your children, as well as to everyone you meet.

We’ll be able to go deep into the heart of your Inner Family Archetypes to help get you “up to speed” quicker than many groups I teach!

Here’s what you’ll be learning in this course:

• Your Inner Family predominances

  Learn how to identify the Inner Family Archetype patterns of your psychology, and how they influence your experience of yourself, your life, your relationships, your work and all aspects of your being

• How to recognize your Loving adult archetypes

  Learn to draw forth your Loving Father and Loving Mother archetypes to help you live authentically, responsibly, effectively and lovingly with yourself and with others

• How to recognize your Loved child archetypes

  Learn to draw forth your Loved Boy Child and Loved Girl Child to help you reclaim your source of enthusiasm, confidence, intuition and creativity

• How to recognize your Unloving (and/or Unloved) archetypes

  Learn how to recognize Unloving (and/or Unloved) archetype patterns that undermine your sense of confidence or worth, block you from being real with yourself and prevent you from being able to see others as they really are

• How to transform your Unloving (and/or Unloved) archetypes into their Loving qualities

  Learn some practical methods to replace Unloving archetypes as they might emerge during everyday life with your Loving archetypes

Plus, you’ll be able to participate in a class support forum to learn from your fellow students’ questions — and my responses to your challenging questions, too!

  Making the Loving Connection —
a new online course  

Why go here and there searching for your ideal family, when it is within?

You can learn to go within and find the family that you always wanted.

You can learn to make the choices and the actions that will bring your Inner Family forth and create it in the world around you.

Understanding your Inner Family Archetypes is key to your wholeness. It lets you truly fulfill the Golden Rule of “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

In the knowledge of your Inner Family Archetypes, you will find the rich rewards of abundant love, and of satisfying, effective relationships.

Who is this course for?

1. People looking for deeper insight into Right Brain Education and a way of applying the principles

2. People looking for a better understanding of their marriage or personal relationships

3. People looking for better ways of managing their business and customer relationships

4. People looking for spiritual healing in their inner quest for peace

5. People looking for wholeness and the feeling of connectedness

What’s my investment?

The tuition is $98, which includes four online self-paced streaming audio teaching modules, integrated online course workbooks, and access to the online class group support forum.

When can I start?

Right now, if you would like. It’s waiting for you!

Immediately after your registration purchase, you will get access to the course so you can start learning about Inner Family Archetypes right away.

Note: This online course is self-paced. Like most online courses, there is a recommended course length, but you may choose to complete it much faster. (This course is for 90 days.) The time length is the access period that your student login is valid, and is the maximum time length you have to complete your course.

I look forward to helping you meet and understand your Inner Family!

Most lovingly,

Caroline Hanstke
Wholeness Psychologist and Developer of Inner Family Archetypes